
Originally Posted by
caduceus
A sad day and era for this board. My personal feeling is that the board is apparently not working, only because life isn't working. We have no basketball, and probably won't in the near future. I don't think it's a reason to abandon the greatest CBB board that exists. We still remain Zag fans. This ailment won't last forever, and one day we'll be shıtposting as we ever were. And that act of shıtposting is something that, while enraging at many points, it would bring out a vigorous and healthy discussion. (Kitz, don't, please. It comes from the heart. I'll pay my penance if you insist for the language).
I think many of us are at times too fragile to receive a post that is oppositional. I get it in PM's all the time. "He said this, He said that...SAY SOMETHING!!!" Maybe we're just all getting old and don't want to deal with opposition. But despite the level of conflict, I think that the vast majority of people here are ultimately aligned. And I'm very confident that the vast, vast majority of the viewers here are readers rather than writers. So often I see a couple of posters get at each other, only to reconcile their differences, all the while remaining anonymous.
Anonymity stokes the fires, because we say things we never would face to face. If I met you at the Bowl and Pitcher or on Bloomsday, you'd probably not say the things we see digitally here. This is the life of the Internet. I know you, Mr. Avatar, but yet I don't know you. Your background, or your family, or even your location (except WooHoo, who can't say enough about his life to all of us, bless him). Your pleasures and your irritants. It's so easy to envision someone on a random board only by what they show you. It's a feature that is only detrimental to the viewing audience.
We shouldn't take so much of our virtual, digital exposition so seriously. The meatspace (real life) existence seems to creep too much into our virtual electronic lives on a database (GU Boards) run by a media company. I don't have the antidote, only because there are people that will escalate and ruffle feathers to their own personal satisfaction, no matter the cost.
I can't tell you how many times a poster enraged me during game threads that I wanted to virtually choke them. But I easily do know that I would never even consider it if I was seeing them face to face, and that I would welcome them as merely another red-blooded fan of our team. Digital media expands the emotions of what we normally expect.
As for you LIZF, I can only express my regrets, as you have been the gracious of moderators, and your posts have always contributed in a positive way. I can't imagine the torrent of crap you've had to deal with as a moderator. Anyway, I wish you happiness, as I wish all of our board members. A little less hate means a lot more happiness.
=cad=