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    I propose a thread which all use to mark milestones in their family (or friends') lives. Maybe it will fall off, harmless.


    *** My baby girl started sixth grade today, first official day of school down here, where as I've said before, they start early bc everyone wants to be inside anyway.

    My only baby is now in middle school, even though her school is K-8. We live in the country, part of the 'Sipp that floats on oil. Thus, it is the best public school I have had the pleasure to be around. IT also allows the school to have "wings" - The K-2 "Wing" and the "3-5" wing, and the 6-8 wing.

    Sadness, AND excitement. Every single time I long for the days when she was 5, I remind myself she will be 18 in six weeks, and enjoy the hell out of these days.


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    One great thing about living in the south, when you're a parent, you get to call your children your "babies" until you die.

    That is why a proud grandmother will clap and cheer her "baby" at a high school football game.

    Some find it sickening. I find it endearing, and loving.
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    I do have hopes for this thread. It would give us a chance to congratulate each other, like family, Zags at our best.
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    They do grow up fast. My oldest nephew is about to start his first year of college at Louisville. I'm still finding that a bit hard to believe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seacatfan View Post
    They do grow up fast. My oldest nephew is about to start his first year of college at Louisville. I'm still finding that a bit hard to believe.
    agree.

    One of my nieces just graduated from GU and luckily got a job in Seattle as an engineer.
    She just moved to Seattle last weekend.

    Gosh, I remember when she was born and I held her as a baby in Vegas.....
    all these women kept coming over to me and were telling me: "What a cute baby!"

    That was the time when they imploded the Aladdin Hotel.

    We went to see the blowing up of the hotel..... but, we didn't realize that once the Aladdin Hotel started to come down....
    well, all this dust and crud started going everywhere.

    and we had to get the heck out of there pronto
    we were actually running as we pushed her on the stroller
    trying to avoid the huge dust cloud headed our way.
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    Legally being able to drink with your own children. Which, as of next February will be both my kids.
    "And Morrison? He did what All-Americans do. He shot daggers in the daylight and stole a win." - Steve Kelley (Seattle Times)

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    Was in Truckee yesterday. The wife and I were in a clothing shop. I looked over and she was looking at baby clothes. There were tears in her eyes. She says to me, "We don't have any little people to buy for anymore." Didn't know what to say.

    My youngest grandchild starts kindergarten in about a week and a half.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LongIslandZagFan View Post
    Legally being able to drink with your own children. Which, as of next February will be both my kids.
    A bonding moment. Especially since your passion is brewing, and you can have them compare taste out with dinner.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GPGUgrad View Post
    agree.

    One of my nieces just graduated from GU and luckily got a job in Seattle as an engineer.
    She just moved to Seattle last weekend.

    Gosh, I remember when she was born and I held her as a baby in Vegas.....
    all these women kept coming over to me and were telling me: "What a cute baby!"

    That was the time when they imploded the Aladdin Hotel.

    We went to see the blowing up of the hotel..... but, we didn't realize that once the Aladdin Hotel started to come down....
    well, all this dust and crud started going everywhere.

    and we had to get the heck out of there pronto
    we were actually running as we pushed her on the stroller
    trying to avoid the huge dust cloud headed our way.
    Seems like yesterday we held her hours after birth.

    But, again, that's why I enjoy every single day and don't look back with longing.
    Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seacatfan View Post
    They do grow up fast. My oldest nephew is about to start his first year of college at Louisville. I'm still finding that a bit hard to believe.
    Congrats!! Great school
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    Mrs. Phish and I spent last week in a neuro observation room at Swedish in Seattle. For those of you who remember, this is the same test she "failed" last year as her team discovered that her heart stopped during seizure events. With a pacer in place this year, there was no fear of that problem and the test was completed as planned.

    Our milestone was realized as her neuro team discovered that her seizures originate in an entirely different region of her brain than previously thought; back-right, not front-left. It is a small distinction, but it took more than thirty years to really pin down and means an entirely different approach. Surgery is still a possibility, but new courses of medicine could also add up to a solution in the interim. Here's hoping.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheZagPhish View Post
    Mrs. Phish and I spent last week in a neuro observation room at Swedish in Seattle. For those of you who remember, this is the same test she "failed" last year as her team discovered that her heart stopped during seizure events. With a pacer in place this year, there was no fear of that problem and the test was completed as planned.

    Our milestone was realized as her neuro team discovered that her seizures originate in an entirely different region of her brain than previously thought; back-right, not front-left. It is a small distinction, but it took more than thirty years to really pin down and means an entirely different approach. Surgery is still a possibility, but new courses of medicine could also add up to a solution in the interim. Here's hoping.
    First of all, I am glad you are hopeful about her outcome moving forward. Secondly, it is phenomenal what science lets us now learn about ourselves. I find this amazing.

    Praying for the best.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheZagPhish View Post
    Mrs. Phish and I spent last week in a neuro observation room at Swedish in Seattle. For those of you who remember, this is the same test she "failed" last year as her team discovered that her heart stopped during seizure events. With a pacer in place this year, there was no fear of that problem and the test was completed as planned.

    Our milestone was realized as her neuro team discovered that her seizures originate in an entirely different region of her brain than previously thought; back-right, not front-left. It is a small distinction, but it took more than thirty years to really pin down and means an entirely different approach. Surgery is still a possibility, but new courses of medicine could also add up to a solution in the interim. Here's hoping.
    I cannot help but think this is wonderful news, despite realizing the pain you as a couple have gone through with this.

    As you know better than most, few appreciate the difficulty like me. I have two foci, but mine are in the right frontal lobe, that center famous for left-handedness, depression, creativity, word smithing, and a lot of stupid impulsivity with good intentions. Me to a T, and I have TWO.

    But, I never suffered the fear y'all did, and I am so encouraged, for you. Hang in there, bro.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheZagPhish View Post
    Mrs. Phish and I spent last week in a neuro observation room at Swedish in Seattle. For those of you who remember, this is the same test she "failed" last year as her team discovered that her heart stopped during seizure events. With a pacer in place this year, there was no fear of that problem and the test was completed as planned.

    Our milestone was realized as her neuro team discovered that her seizures originate in an entirely different region of her brain than previously thought; back-right, not front-left. It is a small distinction, but it took more than thirty years to really pin down and means an entirely different approach. Surgery is still a possibility, but new courses of medicine could also add up to a solution in the interim. Here's hoping.
    Good news. Prayers for you and your family.
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    Received this text from my daughter this morning:

    “ I woke up at 7:00 on my day off to get my oil changed because when you live with a 61 year old man for long enough you become one. “

    Minor benchmark. . .


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    Quote Originally Posted by RenoZag View Post
    Received this text from my daughter this morning:

    “ I woke up at 7:00 on my day off to get my oil changed because when you live with a 61 year old man for long enough you become one. “

    Minor benchmark. . .
    Well done.

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    We took our middle boy to kindergarten orientation today. He has one friend from preschool in his class and about 6 others in the school. We also got to meet our older son's 3rd grade teacher when we passed his new classroom. I'm hoping it's a much better school year for him.

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    We got my son a new car over the summer... he drove himself up to Binghamton yesterday... alone. Managed to run into a serious rainstorm in the process.

    I felt like i was on the trip with him as he called me about a dozen times... missed turnoff to go north to take NY Rt 17 and instead ended up in traffic hell on the Cross Bronx... should he take the upper or lower level on the GWB... can he set his cruise control faster because he was going 68 in a 65 and EVERYONE was flying by him (told him no more than 72)... should he stop to go to the bathroom only to be told he could probably make it without going... 10 minutes later, telling me he was going to stop... letting me know when he got to Pennsylvania... that he was 15 miles south of Scranton and that it was raining buckets and asking me when it might end... that the rain let up... and when he gets there... he calls his MOM!!! I was point of contact the whole trip and he calls his mom when he gets there. Honestly didn't mind. Rather have that than no calls at all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LongIslandZagFan View Post
    We got my son a new car over the summer... he drove himself up to Binghamton yesterday... alone. Managed to run into a serious rainstorm in the process.

    I felt like i was on the trip with him as he called me about a dozen times... missed turnoff to go north to take NY Rt 17 and instead ended up in traffic hell on the Cross Bronx... should he take the upper or lower level on the GWB... can he set his cruise control faster because he was going 68 in a 65 and EVERYONE was flying by him (told him no more than 72)... should he stop to go to the bathroom only to be told he could probably make it without going... 10 minutes later, telling me he was going to stop... letting me know when he got to Pennsylvania... that he was 15 miles south of Scranton and that it was raining buckets and asking me when it might end... that the rain let up... and when he gets there... he calls his MOM!!! I was point of contact the whole trip and he calls his mom when he gets there. Honestly didn't mind. Rather have that than no calls at all.
    Great story, well told, and definitely a milemarker in his life, and yours.

    Take heart in the phone call to Mom. I think it shows that the kid hit the sweet spot in showing equal affection for both parents. Beep underlying trust that Dad's there, knows that mom probably worries the absolute most. Not so bad, you know?
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    First day of Kindergarten for Stanley. First day of 3rd grade for Grant.

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    Helped my oldest daughter apply for colleges today. Her first application?
    Gonzaga.

    Tennessee is her front runner though.

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    Mistakes were made.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitzbuel View Post
    Helped my oldest daughter apply for colleges today. Her first application?
    Gonzaga.

    Tennessee is her front runner though.
    Right on.
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    First middle school football game, for which my daughter made the cheerlea…. "Dance team" as a sixth grader among many 7th and 8th graders.

    Sigh.

    Very mixed feelings about a sixth grade … never mind.

    SHE is excited, thus I am excited for her. Making the team down here is far too important to many kids and parents, and you just have to believe me on the FAR thing bc it, well, it is insane.

    My mixed feelings aside, it has increased her confidence in herself, and among her classmates. Plus, she loves to dance and be on a team of any kind.

    She left just now in her uniform.

    God help me. And her, she is planning to have some fun.
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    No one was harmed....

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    Quote Originally Posted by bartruff1 View Post
    No one was harmed....
    Yet.

    Me?

    I have trouble with how young the whole "girl/woman" thing starts nowadays. Big part of me thinks that sixth/seventh grade are their last shot as "being kids" - they have the rest of the lives to "be grown."

    Oh well.

    As you said, no real harm (other than the cost!) and some gain.
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